You know a man is a good man when he can deal with hearing your drama and financial worries in the midst of a storm. I started talking with Jon from POF about 3 weeks ago. I mean, he heard my drama of dealing with having to file a petition with the court to move to another county with my son, from serving my ex, to hiring a lawyer and complaining about other scary things that are involved with this move and the house mortgage. We started off exchanging messages on POF a few times a day to moving over to texting 100 times a day to having our first phone conversation a few days ago.
Right now is not the time to be looking for love for me. I wouldn’t expect any man to be a part of what’s going on right now. So much drama, so much stress. If the tables were turned, I would be completely turned off and ran for the hills. And yet, this man is so positive, embracing he’s just the type of supportive person I need in my life right now.
He’s a Christian man and he is a few years younger than me, he’s 29. Yes, he still lives at home but I do not have room to talk because this is what I am fighting the courts for the right to do as we speak. He doesn’t have the best job in the world. He doesn’t even have a career but he is ambitious and he has hopes and dreams he is working towards. I’m right there with him. My business is laughable to some. They can’t even believe I am doing what I am doing for a living because everyone seems to think there re no legit online business opportunities. We are so different yet so similar.
he’s not bothered by the fact that I am a single mom or that I have a son. in fact, he asks engaging questions about my son and things he likes to do. He’s nearly everything on my must have list except the career thing but I am not gonna hold that over him because he seems as though he is making changes in his life.
I know for me, physical chemistry is extremely important and if his online photos are accurate; he is very good looking. I do get afraid that he will become attached me me, and I to him only to be totally disappointed when we meet face to face. meeting right now is out of the question and I don’t actually see us meeting for at least another 2 months. Its just impossible with all the drama going on right now. I wouldn’t feel right meeting him right now, not when my mind is focused on 100 different things.
My best friend fell in love with a man online that lived across the country. They only had webcams, voice chat and phone conversations to connect them. When they met 1 year later, the attraction was still there. It was as though they had known each other all long. I pray the same to happen for me and Jon. I am growing attached to him and I am just ready to let things develop however they choose to be.
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