Mike and I have been dating for 2 1/2 weeks. In that time we have sent over 1,000 text messages. (I know because I have had to upgrade my plan to avoid paying per text.) We have gone on two dates. I was the one to suggest meeting for coffee and then I also suggested the dinner date.
Over the past weekend I suggested getting together on Sunday or Monday since my son was going to be with his dad the next two days. Mike said he’d call me on Sunday to see about going out. He didn’t call and he messaged me at 9pm saying he was helping a friend out and he was bar tending. When I heard this I started to really rethink all of this. Maybe he really isn’t into to me like he is leading me to believe. Monday morning I woke to my usual “Good morning sweetie” text message and once again my doubt in him was put at ease. He then continued to send me messages through out the day as usual asking me what I was doing and telling me that he missed me or was thinking of me. All fine and dandy and keeps my interest.
Today was a bit different based on the fact that I worked. When I work I am unable to check my phone. I saw that he greeted me good morning and asked how my day was going. I responded just as I arrived to work telling him I wouldn’t be able to check my phone until lunch hour. Once the lunch hour came we exchanged a few more messages and then that was it. I hadn’t heard anything from him the rest of the day or evening. He usually messages me several times in the evening and tells me good night every night. So once again I am rethinking all of this.
I feel that if he was really into me then he would try harder to make an effort to see me and he just isn’t. I know the reason why he is quiet today is because he has family visiting right now. I am sure they are keeping him busy.
I just don’t want to waste my time if things aren’t going to progress. I am already really starting to like him and I just don’t want to get attached and then find out it’s not going to work out.
I guess I just need to be a little more patient and see how the next week goes. I’m sorry but my idea of dating someone isn’t physically seeing them once a week and then only communicating by text messages. I need more than that.
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