But onto the comment; On the comment about being rejected by a reject, are you a mother or someone who has or is dating a single mom. I respect single mothers who give their kids all they can but it’s frustrating when you can’t convince them that if they don’t take time for themselves they’ll go crazy and not being happy will eventually affect every aspect. That’s what happened to my mother and now we don’t really speak. I’m a man who’s younger who was thinking of dating a single mother but her past and present was to much to add a relationship onto but I don’t think that’s true. I’m busy at the same time and I don’t want to wonder how things might have been or drift apart but don’t want to give up on this person and don’t know what to do. In spite of the faults she may have, all the things I like about her make the things that are hard to deal with worth it. And even though her ex husband emotionally ridiculed her by saying things like your fat and shit just to nag. But I always thought she looks great the way she is, but whatever makes her happy. It’s hard to find someone that seems special and that’s too hard to just let kids be the reason to not get involved. But I made it clear and it’s hard on me because I feel led on now and I debated taking a chance in the first place and don’t want to be hurt for my honesty again.

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This is so true.
My self esteem is low enough as is. Do I really need to be rejected by a reject ?