I ended up breaking Patti’s rules about communication after a date. Patti Stanger says that you need to match your dates communications only with his lead. So if he calls then I can call him, or if he emails me, then I email him etc. Well, as usual I was already getting ansy a day later as to why he hadn’t called me if our date was so perfect. And when 2 days passed with no communication I was starting to convince myself that perhaps I had misread all of his signals of interest. Now yesterday would have been 3 days of no communication with him. I was talking with one of my male friends and he said “Now you’re positive he knows you are really interested in him?”. “Of course I am positive. I mean I told him ‘I’m not gonna call you, so if you’re interested, you will need to call me’. He knew!” Then my friend started to put ideas in my head that perhaps he misinterpreted that line and thought that maybe I was just being polite.
“Fine.Ok. I will text him then.”
So I sent him a text that read: I know you’re not big on texting but I just wanted to say hi 
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I know that if I didn’t hear back from him within a few hours or even a day that he definitely is not interested. 3 hours later he calls me and we chat for about 20 minutes and then he asked me out on Monday night. I am driving up to his new house he just bought and we’re going to dinner. This should be interesting. I am excited but nervous because I know I need to kiss him on this date. A first kiss is nerve racking but it is essential because it lets him know I am not interested in just a friendship, that I want to be romantically involved with him as well.
I haven’t had a 2nd date in almost a year and a half now, so this is really exciting news for me.
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