He’s Just Not That Into Me And That’s Ok

I never saw “He’s Just Not That Into You” and perhaps I need to. It’s not very often that I find someone online worth meeting or even chatting with. As you can tell by my track record, it seems that I only meet up for a date once every 6 months. (Seriously considering speed dating too by the way.)

Well a few nights ago I took the initiative to message a guy who seems like the ideal match for me. So far he has a lot qualities that I seek in a future husband. Yea…I just said that. (I’m getting old and don’t have time to look for guys i can “hang out” with. I am looking for love and won’t rest until I find it.)
So this guy responds to me and I was sooo excited. We went back and forth exchanging messages all night and then I went to bed. I woke to a message form him so I wrote him back. I didn’t hear back from him for about 24 hours. He responded last night and made more chit chat with me. Naturally I responded about 20 minutes later and then nothing. I’m starting to think he really isn’t that into me. If he was, he would have wrote me back by now. He should be anticipating my messages like I have been for his. I’m just a stupid idiot when it comes to men still.

So I just logged into my account to see if this guy possibly had messaged me and some how my email account had missed the notification. Nope, he hadn’t wrote me back but I did get a message from a gentleman after I logged out. When i say the mail notification I rolled my eyes. Just assuming as always that it was going to be from some 1st generation indian guy who has no clue how to talk to women.

But it wasn’t, it was from an incredibly attractive man! I’m still shocked at how amazingly gorgeous he is and he approached me! Just when I was starting to think I must somehow repulse men or something because attractive men rarely approach me, this guy does! Best part is he is really into health/fitness. I have been into getting healthy the past year or so. this could be a good match. I just fear that maybe he will try and be too physical too soon. Look at me…jumping ahead like this. I dunno I just have a weird gut feeling that he may not be all that serious about finding love like I am.

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