Dating hasn’t worked out too well for me in the Bay Area. I’ve hate it with this place and i am ready for a fresh start. Luckily with my own online business, I can move anywhere I really want to.
About a week ago I got the letter I was regretting from my mortgage company stating my payments were going to be increased by $400 starting June 1st. I spoke with my ex about helping me out for the month and at first he said he would. Then yesterday I received an email in which he went back on his word and said he cannot. He also demands that I get his name removed from the loan immediately or that he was going to get it court ordered that I would either have to sell the house or get his name off the loan. I do not qualify for the loan on my own so I cannot get his name off the loan.
My parents suggested I move back in with them and rent the house out so that I can keep the house. My parents live in Fresno. Its not the best city to live in and its not my ideal place to call home but its my best option right now. So I will be moving to Fresno in a few weeks. Its a pain in the butt right now because I have to do so many steps in preparation. Packing up the house is a pain and also following through with all the necessary paperwork to get everything cleared to move is another thing.
Tonight as I was packing up, I came across all the wedding photos and I cannot believe I still held onto them. I didn’t hesitate to throw them out and I have decided to take nothing to my parents home but my bed mattress, my computer, clothing and a few of my son’s favorite toys. later on, I can replace all of my cooking ware, furniture and home decor. I am looking forward to a fresh start.
Perhaps the man of my dreams is in Fresno or perhaps he is in the little town of Riverside. lol
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