Holy crap! How does this crap happen to me? I am totally gonna vent here. Why the hell would a guy go through the trouble of calling me up for a second date only to ignore my call when I am calling him up to tell him I am leaving to meet up with him?! Seriously…what kind of man does this crap? I am beyond pissed. As a single mother that went out of my way to set up babysitting for my son the least he could have done was to just cancel it. I don’t even care if he would have sent me a text message saying “Sorry have to cancel” or even say “I can’t make it”; whatever. But say something!
I feel embarrassed and stupid that I somehow jinxed it. Its like the minute I tell anyone about this great guy I met and now we’re going on another date or the 5th date or whatever, that’s when everything goes downhill.
New rule! I am not telling another person about any man until he officially asks me to be his girlfriend. I am sick of this! So fricken sick of the douchebags out there!
My sister started telling me excuses “well maybe he had to work late” or maybe he’s in traffic.
Then my mom (who happened to be over this evening too) says “maybe he’s caught up in the storm”. Mom, we live in California, not Vermont!
I went out with my friend Marcus tonight and Marcus told me right away “No more dates for this guy. If he calls you, forget it. He blew it!” Which really what Marcus means is this guy is keeping me as the backup girl.
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I am sorry, that man is totally suck. Is he younger?
Yes, he was a little younger but not by much. He was 31 and I am 33.
Thats complete BS. And Im right there with u girl! Its hard being a single mom dating… I just ran across your blog out of depressed boredom
Feeling a little (lot) sh*tty about my curent less-than-perfect situation. Seems like every early20′s male on this pathetic peninsula hasnt graduated past sophmore year.. Sometimes I lay in bed at night wishing I had a relationship like my friends/sisters/parents…. then I realize they’re miserable too! lol Is true love make believe? What am I doing wrong!? Ive been stood up pretty much every day for the last week by my sig. other…. We have a rocky history, and were not technicaly dateing but cant choose who you love, right?