Why I am glad I am not with my ex

This needs to be done! It’s time.

Reasons why I am glad to not be with my ex-husband anymore:

1.) He has ADHD and makes it too difficult to hold conversations with him. I would have to make sure he isn’t watching TV, reading a book, looking at a magazine, eating, sleeping, breathing.

2.) If he stubs his toe the entire neighborhood also now knows how much it hurt him and the neighborhood kids have just now learned new ways to use the “F word”.

3.) He goes off and buries his face in a book at family functions instead of socializing with family. (Man I hated that.)

4.) He has a fit if his syrup isn’t hot. He will send it back to the waitress until it is hot.

5.) He’s selfish. He will put his needs above all else. One time our baby was crying because he was hungry and he refused to feed him because he said he himself was starving and needed to eat first.

6.) He’s selfish in bed.

7.) He’s a sex addict. He was diagnosed a few years into our marriage and it made it so hard.

8.) He has anger issues and throws things and growls when he is mad.

9.) He cheated on me.

10.) Did I mention he cheated on me?

Ok now the real reason why I posted this. I found out today he is engaged to a woman he has only been seeing for 2 months. You’d think he would take his time before rushing into marriage. When we first separated he was adamant about not ever getting married again. Now all of a sudden he changes his mind.

This does not sit easy with me. No, I do not want him back. haven’t you been following my blog long enough to know that’s not it. Yes, deep down I am still hurt about how he did me wrong but I know I am better off. I know God has a good man for me out there. It might be Mike and it might not. All I know is I can foresee him going through divorce #2 if he isn’t straight up honest with her about his sex addiction. That problem needs to be nipped in the bud now before it grows into a real problem.

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